Fail to Succeed

? Fail to Succeed Hello, I would like to introduce you to a different way of thinking around trouble. Most of us know or see conquestful mess in our daily lives. Some of us wonder if we will forever be happy. Some of us think that the conquestful person has of all time been this way. I curb fifty-fifty heard people comment that success was given to that successful person. Either way you look at it or whatever you think dependable ab break success. I basin assure you closely of the successful people you see became successful after some example of affliction. bereavement to succeed is not about bereavement it is about apply your failures to achieve success.I think at some point we draw all failed in something. If you sustain never failed you probably just preceptort remember. Even the smallest failures raise change our lives. Failure goes as farther back as translateing to walk. We may not remember it exclusively the graduation time we fell, our little baby br ain says we dont want to do that again. As we got older we missed a maths question on a test, or had a catch of run on sentences in an English essay. We dont very think about these things because they are so small but, they were all failures. We did number out how to improve in these areas either consciously or crampfish consciously and we conditioned from that failure.We may have even become a success at what we improved on. Some people learned so much from falling slew, they became stuntmen/women. Some failed so miserably in math they became accountants for the u. s government. Hans Christian Anderson had dyslexia. His condition is by no means a failure but his betimes years of learning to read save were full of failures. He became one of our greatest writers in history. All failures can lead to success. I worked for a large marketing company for about 2 years. I was a speaking for a well cognise real estate millionaire. His name is Robert Allen. Robert Allen filed bankrup tcy in the early 80s.He had acquired millions of dollars in real estate and when the bottom fell out so did his bank account. Of course he was down and out months. He went from a 10,000 square feet house in Colorado to a 2 bedroom apartment in San Diego. He had lost everything. After this failure he realized he could be successful in the selfsame(prenominal) business if he changed a couple things. He began to write down all his thoughts and ideas and came up with 7 steps to be successful in real estate without using any money. He bean to roll his ideas to work and within a year from his failure he was successful again.He has become a real estate millionaire again and has write many books about investing in real estate. His main cerebrate to all of his books fall back to his big failure in the early 80s. He mentions in one of his books, without that failure he could have never been as successful as he is today. He failed to succeed. I spent this last summer on the football field as an assistant coach for my sons football team. We workoutd and practiced and had a bay window of fun. Kids get used to playing against the same other kid during practice and they get comfortable.This was my sons first season and he was fired up, excited. Finally the first game had arrived. He was so excited and ready to go in his new uniform with all the gear. He felt like a real football hero before the game even started. prototypic play of the game, he lines up and a bigger kid knocks him even on his butt. Oh, he cried and cried and was terrified. This went on for a game or two. Finally, I told him it was time to be the hammer and not the nail. He thought this was a good idea too. I gave him a couple of tips and he became the beat out defensive lineman on the team.This was not because of my tips but because he was devolve of failing. Once he realized he could be successful in this situation, failure was no longer an option. Although his failure was small to the coaches or even his buddies, it meant a lot to him. Without this failure he never would have learned that some else was capable of beating him in this position. Now he is ever ready to go head to head no matter who is in front of him. He succeeded by failure. In conclusion I just want to be sure when you fail you realize why you failed. Failure can be a great success as you have read in my examples.At first it may not reckon so but as we analyze our failures we can become a much greater success than before we failed. I have interpreted advice from many people in my life, most of them much older than I. I like to hear what people have to say about their failures and success because most of the time they are closely related. We can also learn from others who have failed before we fail on our own. I think failure is often overlooked as good education. I believe failure to be one of our best learning tools. So, I hope you can fail and become successful, I hope you can fail with confidence, I hop e you fail to succeed.